AN INTERVIEW WITH A REAL LIFE CROSSDRESSER WIFE

Nimisha Specialfriends
good morning maya
how are you

10:41am
Maya Anoop
Good morning dear
Im fine

10:41am
Nimisha Specialfriends
how is life

10:42am
Maya Anoop
Going fine
How are you

10:45am
Nimisha Specialfriends
i am fine
what about you
want to meet you
haven't known honestly a Gay couple as you two
would like to know you people and be freidns with both of you

10:49am
Maya Anoop
What you want to know..? Let it be like an interview

10:52am
Nimisha Specialfriends
can i post it on my blog

10:54am
Maya Anoop
Yes you can
Avoid using pictures

10:55am
Nimisha Specialfriends
no pictures
i dont put pictures till it is permitted

10:56am
Maya Anoop
Ask

10:56am
Nimisha Specialfriends
so can i start
Dear Maya,

10:56am
Maya Anoop
Yes

10:56am
Nimisha Specialfriends
We know from you that you are a Gay and have a family where you are a wife

10:57am
Maya Anoop
Yes still i am..

10:57am
Nimisha Specialfriends
This is something not so openly stated in the Indian context as often. More so the expression of the word as WIFE or HUSBAND in the LGBT community is not so common.
Hence, would like to know how do you feel regarding it

10:59am
Maya Anoop
First of all let me tell you that instead of the words gay,cd etc i would like to call myself a women or a female.

11:00am
Nimisha Specialfriends
OK
so does that mean that you libve full time as a female. I mean dressing and jewellery and all
?

11:04am
Maya Anoop
No im not a full time cd..In social life im not a cd..Im a normal man like all

11:06am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
but still you believe you are a woman

11:06am
Maya Anoop
The count of LGBT is almost the same like european countries but here these people are scared to establish that he or she is a same sex lover
Yes still i believe that im a woman and wife..And we would like to adopt a child in future if God and law allows

11:09am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
so how about sharing your story in slight detail maya

11:11am
Maya Anoop
Sure..Lets start from childhood right

11:11am
Nimisha Specialfriends
yes

11:12am
Maya Anoop
Myself Maya Anoop menon was born in 21st of august 1987. In kerala the god's own country

11:13am
Nimisha Specialfriends
Anoop is your husband
right

11:13am
Maya Anoop
Yes

11:13am
Nimisha Specialfriends
would you like to share your male name?

11:14am
Maya Anoop
Yes J. M. Jose

11:14am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
thanks
go ahead please

11:15am
Maya Anoop
You are welcome
Did my schooling from ernakulam..In the age of 12 i got misused by my uncle and he was 30 at that time
It was actually a rape..Hope you'll know that i was a kid

11:18am
Nimisha Specialfriends
please continue! i shall be back in 2 minutes from loo.

11:20am
Maya Anoop
I was very much interested in painting dancing and such type of stuffs..And i was a well known table tennis player in school
After that accident which i've told you earlier i became intro
Ask some questions

11:40am
Nimisha Specialfriends
i am back
ok
Well so what about dressing during school days?

10:39am
Maya Anoop
My dressing on school dress was like a normal boy
I mean school days
Im fine

10:40am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
fine lets continue from where we left that day
so you were telling us about your school
how did it change when you went to college

10:42am
Maya Anoop
Till i met anoop all was normal like a boy..But before that too i was a girl within

10:42am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
then
what changed
and when di dyou meet anoop

10:43am
Maya Anoop
When i was 4 i know him..But i shared my feelings with him when i was 20

10:44am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok

10:44am
Maya Anoop
Hope you can follow

10:48am
Nimisha Specialfriends
i do
so at 20 how did you confess
and what happened

10:49am
Maya Anoop
Before that he was my best friend (his father and my father were good friends from their childhood)

10:50am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok

10:51am
Maya Anoop
One day i called him and said anu i would like to share some life matter about myself
Suddenly he came from work and i shared all the secrets about me

10:52am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
then

10:52am
Maya Anoop
Thus i came to know that he also loves me..

10:52am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
thats was a very subtle but good happening
how about the marriage thing
how did that happen
wasn't there any resistance from families
:??

10:55am
Maya Anoop
Soon after the confess he left to gujarat for his business need for 3 months..And that loneliness makes us love.
Phone calls and messages played an important role in this

10:56am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
so what happened next after 3 months

10:58am
Maya Anoop
On 2009 may 3rd he came back to kerala
You there
Hello

11:00am
Nimisha Specialfriends
yes
listening
carry on

11:01am
Maya Anoop
After that we decided to get marry on may 13 2009

11:01am
Nimisha Specialfriends
what about family

11:02am
Maya Anoop
Before that he informed about our marriage to his own younger brother

11:02am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok

11:03am
Maya Anoop
And i informed this to my brother in law

11:03am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
parents?

11:04am
Maya Anoop
Not at that time

11:05am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
then

11:05am
Maya Anoop
At santa cruz cash
Sorry ..
At santa cruz basilica we got married with a ring exchange ceremony

11:06am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
what about your feminine dressing at the wedding or afterwards
or ring exchange was just like males

11:07am
Maya Anoop
I was in normal dressing
Like males

11:07am
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
so when did the first dressing as a bride or a married woman happen for you?

11:08am
Maya Anoop
On that day we stayed together at my house
And the next day early morning we left to Nelliyampathy (palghat dist in kerala)

11:10am
Nimisha Specialfriends
I am sure it was a lovely golden night
ok so you were telling me that
next day you left for some place in kerala

5:51pm
Maya Anoop
Its for our honey moon
Neliyampathy in palakad dist

5:52pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
and i was asking so after marriageok when did your
first dressing as a woman happen
like you told me once that there was some thing like a full bridal dressing so what about that

5:53pm
Maya Anoop
Yea its on that day

5:53pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
throw some light on that
how and who did that
was it planned or a surprise

5:54pm
Maya Anoop
Me my self and i kept anu outside of the resort

5:55pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
so you had got all the stuff self planned
thats nice
so who helped you at it
i mean getting ready

5:56pm
Maya Anoop
It was a surprise for him
I got all the stuff with me

5:57pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
so how did you go about it
any beauticians of friends along

5:58pm
Maya Anoop
One of my friend was a make up artist from her i learned
Self make up

5:58pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
fine
so how long did your groom have to wait outside
and by the way
what did you tell him
that he had to stay out

6:00pm
Maya Anoop
Around 1 hour..I told him that i want to make a surprise for you pls stay out

6:01pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
pretty patient i must say
any ways
what happened after that

6:02pm
Maya Anoop
Was a nice moment in ma life

6:02pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
i can understand
what was his first reaction

6:03pm
Maya Anoop
He hugged me tightly
I saw his eyes filled with tears of joy
He murmered in my ears "aku chinta kaamu"

6:05pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
meaning??

6:06pm
Maya Anoop
Its in malay..I love you...He was in malaysia for 4 years

6:07pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
well i am sure it was a great golden night
lets look at a few other things in your life there after
how did you both break the news to your parents
and more importantly who was easy to make understand
fathers or mothers

6:08pm
Maya Anoop
None other than mothers

6:10pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
why what about fathers
and what was your mother in laws first reaction and gift to you as an acceptance

5:26pm
Maya Anoop
We called both of our mothers into a room and we shared..Both of them were cried ..She accepted me as her son that is the first gift i got from her

5:26pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
then how came the daughter in law
when she accepted you as son

5:27pm
Maya Anoop
She knows that im her DIL

5:28pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
when did she first see you in a saree
or has she never

5:28pm
Maya Anoop
Not yet..

5:28pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
any reason why??
does she know about your dressing??

5:29pm
Maya Anoop
I dont want to do that in front of her...

5:29pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
ok
what if she asks?? because i am sure she knows

5:30pm
Maya Anoop
Yes she knows

5:30pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
did you tellor she guessed it
if she asks you to dress what will you do??

5:31pm
Maya Anoop
But for the coming new year im doing it in full swing..On that day i'll show her

5:31pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
love to see your new year pics! that shall be an anticipation
when did you both decide to adopt children, and how does it feel being called a mother??

5:32pm
Maya Anoop
Its all anoop's decision to adopt a child..I supported him in same with my full heart

5:32pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
so you feel good to be called a mother haan

5:33pm
Maya Anoop
Yes ofcourse..Its a nice feeling that no one can express unless an until we undergoes

5:33pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
Thanks Maya!!
is there anything special you want to share

5:34pm
Maya Anoop
You are welcome

5:34pm
Nimisha Specialfriends
any message to the LGBT and CD community

5:35pm
Maya Anoop
Will post our new pic shortly..A merry christmas and a happy new year to you and all
Get established..!!!

Dear all, the rest of people are thinking that we (LGBT) are sex seekers or prostitutes..Make them wrong ..Maya

Thank you Nimisha..My special friend