#crossdressing #maletofemale #habits #somestrangebehaviour
1) some CD's are scared of being recognised publicly, but do not shy from attending events like #Pride, which as on date is a widely publicized event. Risk of pictures and videos floating around is high. When you participate, remember a few things, your people may be aware of your presence in that city then, and an internet recommendation on social media can just spoil the secrecy cover.
2) some CD's want to enjoy relationships, but they are afraid of sexual interaction.
If there is going to be any sort of a physical relationship, intimacy is quite likely. You cannot ignore it, or try to deliberately resist. If both are not mature, your resistance can lead to your abuse. So better choose who you meet and define the limits before hand.
3) every crossdresser except an artist is secret. But still people have a silly idea of secret / private crossdresser and a public crossdresser.
4) it is fool hardy to compare a crossdresser with a woman. You cannot! Anatomically, apart from the genitals, the skeleton and other organs too have a gender differential.
5) do not try to copy feminine movements. It is not possible for a male, unless he is a trained artist. Simply because the anatomy of a male has different geometric and architectural proportions than a female.
6) kiss is not bad, and kiss is not a rape or abuse; but before you kiss someone, seek their permission.
7) relationships, even if sexual among CD's, can only be momentary. They can last with repeat meetings. But they cannot become permanent unless, except in virtual world.
8) fantasy of relationships, living them to the idea of sexual fantasy is not wrong. It is healthy, and allows you to think and concentrate better. Sex is a natural urge. Suppression of a natural urge is bound to cause rebounds, in the form of mood infirmity and cascading unhappiness at home as well.
9) sex i not a taboo. Intercourse is an expression of acceptance. Nothing unnatural, unless it breaches the personal boundaries of the individual and does not have an unforced consent
10) CD's are women. Women with a different heart, but largely subdued expression, which comes from their male side. But that does no make them a lesser woman. It is just a different expression.
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